11 Ways Successful People Start Their Mornings

Onward and upwards er’body! Let’s meet our new goals this year and learn from the best!

Interesting article to share via Marc and Angel Hack Life Practical Tips for Productive Living

By Sam Of Financial Upside

The day may have 24 hours of equivalent length but every hour is not created equal.  Beginning the day with a purpose and a plan increases your chances of success.

In her book What the Most Successful People Do Before Breakfast, Laura Vanderkam writes, “Seizing your mornings is the equivalent of that sound financial advice to pay yourself first.  If you wait until the end of the month to save what you have left, there will be nothing left over.  Likewise, if you wait until the end of the day to do meaningful but not urgent things like exercise, pray, read, ponder how to advance your career or grow your organization, or truly give your family your best, it probably won’t happen.”

Here are 11 smart ways to start your day.  I would suggest that the most successful people do the majority of these things during the first couple hours of their morning as part of their daily routine.

  1. Get an early start.
  2.  This extra time will help you avoid speeding tickets, tardiness and other unnecessary headaches.  In addition, most markets and businesses open by 9 A.M.  Whether you work from home or commute to an office, the more time you’ve had to digest the day’s news and obstacles ahead, the greater advantage you’ll have over your competition.
  3. Review your Focus list.
  4. What is your number one goal right now?  What’s most important to you?  What makes you happy?  Design your time around these things.  Remember, time is your greatest limited resource, because no matter how hard you try you can’t work 25/8.
  5. Review your TO-DON’T list.
  6. A ‘TO-DON’T list’ is a list of things not to do.  It might seem amusing, but it’s an incredibly useful tool for keeping track of unproductive habits, like checking Facebook and Twitter, randomly browsing news websites, etc.  Create one and post it up in your workspace where you can see it.
  7. Exercise.
  8.  Other than the obvious health benefits, movement increases brain function and decreases stress levels.  Developing a consistent habit of exercising is a discipline which will carry over into your business day – Apple CEO, Tim Cook, is in the gym by 5 A.M. every morning.  If you can, go outside for a walk, or jump on the treadmill and start out slow.  This will jump-start your metabolism and your day.
  9. Eat a healthy breakfast.
  10. Your brain and body speed are a function of what you intake.  Bagels, muffins and sugars have the tendency to slow you down.  Fruits, proteins and grains help provide a consistent stream of energy without the sudden drop-off.   Try a mixture of orange, apple and lemon juice with a spinach omelet one morning and let me know how much better you feel.
  11. Kiss your partner goodbye.
  12.  It sounds cheesy, but most truly successful people have a great home life.  Acknowledging your partner (and kids) mentally relaxes you, allowing you to focus on the day ahead.  Don’t lose sight of the fact that you’re striving to be successful so they may benefit as well.
  13. Practice 15 minutes of positive visualization.
  14. In his program Get the Edge, Tony Robbins explains the importance of gratitude visualization first thing every morning.  In a nutshell, spend roughly 15 minutes thinking of everything you’re grateful for: in yourself, among your family and friends, in your career, and the like.  After that, visualize everything you want in your life as if you had it today.  The effect?  Elevated certainty in everything you do, and always being in peak state.  Despite how ‘new age’ it sounds, it’s had incredible effects on associating success into my every-day life.
  15. Put first things first.
  16. Successful people recognize that not all hours are created equal, and they strategically account for this when planning their day.  For most of us, our minds operate at peak performance in the morning hours when we’re well rested.  So obviously it would be foolish to use this time for a trivial task like reading emails.  These peak performance hours should be 100% dedicated to working on the tasks that bring you closer to your goals.
  17. Eat that frog.
  18. Brian Tracy’s classic time-management book Eat That Frog gets its title from a Mark Twain quote that says, if you eat a live frog first thing in the morning, you’ve got it behind you for the rest of the day, and nothing else will be more difficult.  In others words, get the tough stuff done first.
  19. Connect with the right people.
  20.   Relationships are the basis of business – communication is the basis of relationships.  Successful people associate with people who are likeminded, focused, and supportive.  These people create energy when they enter the room, versus those who create energy when they leave.  Connecting with these positive people in the morning can set you up for a positive day.
  21. Stay informed.
  22. Whether you prefer National Public Radio or the Wall Street Journal, spend a few minutes each morning learning about what is going on in the world.  Not only will it educate you, it may change your perspective or inspire your actions for the day.

Celestine’s Secrets to Length Retention

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I have to be honest… I haven’t always taken care of my hair. My hair used to break off, have excessive split ends, and at one point fall out. In 2007, I became a vegan and charged my overall diet and that is when I began to see a huge change in my hair. IT STARTED GROWING… Like a weed! I started taking better care of my body, exercising, doing yoga- vinyasa and Bikram, and taking vitamins- a Multi- vitamin, B-Complex, Biotin, and Vitamin E.
My diet and exercise regimen has continued and evolved since. I am now a vegetarian/pescatarian- I do eat eggs (organic cage free)  which are great sources of protein, a major component of maintaining healthy hair, and fish, organic salmon in particular. Most of my diet consists of vegetables and some fruit, nuts, and protein. I attribute my length retention to my diet, nutrition, and exercise. However, maintaining the health of my hair has been a new learning process for me.
My ends are quick to split! So I’ve recently been religious about sleeping with a silk night cap to prevent damage to my ends while I sleep. I also started to give my ends a weekly overnight grape seed oil treatment and I am very careful about combing and brushing! I used to rake through my hair with a vengeance but I am now more careful and patient and I always apply a conditioner in the shower before to soften the hair and help with set detangling. I try not to brush my hair when it is dry and I always brush from the bottom of my hair to the top. I also do a weekly protein treatment and deep conditioner which leaves my hair looking healthy and keeps it strong so I won’t be forced to cut too much hair when it’s time for a trim.
(BUT SHE STILL DOESN’T LISTEN  TO ME WHEN IT COMES TO MIXING HER LEAVE-IN WITH ALOE VERA GEL SHE IS STILL USING NON-LEAVE IN AS A LEAVE-IN AND I WANT TO PUNCH HER FOR IT. SMH. THIS IS ANT BTW AND CELESTINE IS MY SIS IN CASE YOU DIDN’T KNOW)
Surprise, Surprise! It has to do with her diet. Hey Fran Hey is somewhere shaking her head like, “I BEEN told you snitches that!”

I Got DANdruff In My Hair!

I know no one understands why that title “I got DANdruff in my hair” is so funny to me. My dad told me when he was in grade school he and his best friend would terrorize his teacher by yelling “I GOT DAN..druff in my hair!” Say it out loud. Do you see why the teacher was so annoyed by his psuedo-cursing? Isn’t that funny??!!
Anywhooo, real rap I have dandruff. It happens every winter. For some reason, my scalp thinks it is doing me a favor by creating layers of dead skin to shed and keep my head warm. It isn’t severe dandruff but it is enough to notice. I have also been dealing with a really tender, throbbing head. For some reason, after washing and moisturizing my hair, my scalp will ache afterwards. I can’t figure out for the live of me what is going on but with the help of Antoinette (although this can easily be done solo), I attempted some self medication to relieve and revive my scalp using tea tree oil as the active ingredient and jojoba oil as the carrier (it can be any NON-mineral or NON-petroleum based oil).

I hate to gross you out but I wanted to provide a visual of my dandruff. It is not that bad but it is consistently shedding.

My hair was previosly washed, so I did this treatment on dry hair. I started by mixing my Jojoba and tea tree oil together in a bowl. You do not want to burn your scalp with the highly concentrated tea tree oil so make sure you are putting 5x more jojoba than tea tree. I did not measure anything but I can guess-timate that I added 1 and a half capfuls of tea tree oil to 1/4 cup of jojoba.

In order to make sure that this mixture was reaching as much surface as possible on my inflamed scalp I decided to put my hair into 8 straight backs and apply the oil to my exposed scalp area. Honeychild, it felt like heaven.

I know that I will have to repeat this process about twice a week to stay on top of the dandruff because just one application does not do it for me.

I hope this helps any of the tender-headed, dander sufferers out there like me. We in this together!

I ♥ My…

I’ve been fighting some demons lately. It all stemmed from having to look through 222 of the pictures from the photoshoot we did with Vivid Vignettes. I analyzed and scrutinized every picture. I’ve got to be honest it’s not easy being photographed next to slim Shanti while I’m struggling to have a healthy body and body image. I almost let it get the best of me until I saw a picture of the new healthy and fit Jordin Sparks online and it inspired me to just keep on keeping on. I really want to be a source of encouragement for all the women that wrote me and show me so much love when I initially came clean about my weight issues. So, instead of feeling sorry for myself and getting stuck in comparisons I worked out and wrote a list of some of the things that are unique to me and that I love about my body….

If you’d like to hear it, here it go

I My…
-extreme and somewhat deceiving arch of my back
- huge dip in my nose
- smile
- big ass head
-curve of my breasts
-flat but oh-so-cute feet
and lastly my
-big ass soup coolers
Sometimes you need a little reminder ☺
What’s on your list? What do you love about you?

Shannon Breaks Down How To Get Clear Skin!

I, Antoinette will be trying some of her methods. I know all about clogged pores and breakouts in my twenties. I just about never leave the house without some kind of foundation on and I’m tired of feeling like a slave to it.

Her Tips:
Adding more greens and fiber to your diet
Adding Flax Seed Oil (good fat) to your meals
Exfoliating with Baking Soda
Using a moisturizing facial soap
Omega 3 Pills

Are you dealing with acne? What are your tricks of the trade?

Caring for the Love Below

                                                                                                                                                                     

So summer is approaching upon us rather quickly. With summer comes pool parties, vacations and whether we like it or not swimsuits! Often times we are so preoccupied with how our bodies look in the bathing suits that we are surprised by the tarantula legs poking out of the crouch of our suits once we are finally in them! Don’t get caught in a hairy situation! The hair   below need not be ignored ladies!
I find that pubic hair maintance is very common with white women. My cousins on my mother’s side are white and I remember being shocked and curious when I realized that they completely shaved and at times designed their public hair regularly! Is it simply a taboo conversation amongst black women or are we all just froin’ it top to bottom?! 
Perhaps it is an uncommon ritual within the black community due to the aggravation and irritation that occurs after shaving or waxing in the form of itchy, painful and unsightly ingrown hairs. A  Ingrown hair is when a hair strand has been cut short and grows back under the skin. Afro textured hair is more prone to become ingrown due to the coiled nature in which it grows out of the follicle. It simply does not protrude straight out the skin but curls and gets trapped within the skin causing raised, irritated bumps.

                                                                           

Here are some tips to keeping the love below tamed and presentable in your summer swim suits



1. Begin by cleansing the area well with a gentle soap to ensure that all dirt is removed 
2.   Follow by exfoliating the skin with a scrub or loofa to remove any excess dead skin and clogged pores. (The cleaner and clearer the skin the less potential for irritation and “extra” layer of skin that may become an entrapment for the hair.)
3.Soak in a bath or apply a damp warm towel to the area to soften the hair. 
4.Determine your method of hair removal: razor blade, waxing, depilatories which chemically remove the hair (for example Nair)

Razor blade  make sure the blade is not dull, rusted or impacted with hair from previous use. Always apply a shaving cream (hypo- allergenic) before shaving. I recommend for additional softening of the area to apply your favorite conditioner and use that as your “shaving cream”. Works wonders. Use a single blade razor because multi bladed razors cut too close to the skin and can lead to razor bumps and ingrown hairs. When shaving  ALWAYS SHAVE IN THE DIRECTION THAT THE HAIR GROWS.

Waxing is another option. Although considered the most painful option many claim that it is the most effective because the hairs grow back more slowly and more finely than shaving and chemical treatments. The reason being is the hair is pulled directly out of the follicle in entirety rather than simply being cut. There are plenty of At Home Waxing kits  to choose from or you can go to a trusted salon to have the process done professionally.

Depilatories can be purchased at your local drugstore. By following the directions you can have a smooth bikini line in seconds. The chemicals in the cream dissolve the hair proteins which can then just be simply wiped away. The problem with depilatories are if not removed in the appropriate amount of time they can burn the skin as well as cause allergic reactions and skin irritation. 

5.After whichever process you use, make sure to cleanse once again with a gentle wash or witch hazel. 
6.If any ingrown hairs occur, do not pick at them with your fingernails. Use a sterilized tweezer and attempt to pull the ingrown hair from the skin. Disinfect afterwards.

Get your hair ready for the summer ladies from head to toe! 

Join Antoinette’s Get Me Bodied Home Work Out Plan

I find that my most common excuse for not working out is my so called ‘lack of time’. But I’m realizing now that incorporating exercise into my daily activities is really not that difficult or time consuming.  The exercises below only take about 15-20 minutes at the most and can be done is the comfort of your own home (with the exception to the cardio work outs at the gym 3x’s a week). 
And if you’re not able to get to the gym 3x a week there are some home work-out videos that target cardio in addition to toning and it’s then all the more reason to incorporate 15-20 minutes a day to taking care of your body. 
*Keep in mind that the gym can be replaced by a fitness class, dance class, zumba etc.
                                                                                                                                                              
    Monday    
45 push ups: 3 sets of 15

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45 reverse push ups: 3 sets of 15

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50-75 crunches

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*Gym- Cardio 45-60 minutes
    Tuesday    
45 Squats (with or w/out weights): 3 sets of 15

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40 Leg Lifts Side and Back (each side)- 2 sets of 20

*Gym- Cardio 45-60 Mintues
    Wednesday    
*Gym- 60 Minutes of Cardio
Some Arms, Shoulders, Back and Abs (Various Machines)
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    Thursday    
Relax/Stretch/Rest

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    Friday    
Various Ab Exercises..
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 Can’t Make It To The Gym? Here Are Some Alternatives 
Do my “at home” workouts back to back without stopping to increase the cardio
Walk up and down the stairs of my apt
Dutty Wine and Jam around the house to my ipod
Get off the train a stop early and walk to work
Also, THE WORKOUTS IN THE VIDEO BELOW IS THE ISH!!!

 Worried About Sweating It Out? 
Not wanting to work out because of your hair? Read these helpful tips on how to save you style while working out.

 Take the Pledge! 
Alright, so this is my goal. So, who is with me? Come up with your own workout plan but promise to dedicate 15-20 minutes a day to taking care of your body. 
WHO’S WITH ME? 

Asili Glam’s Work Out Hair Regimen

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How many of you out there struggle with the constant battle of working out weekly while trying your best to maintain your natural hair? If you have a strict, intense workout routine does your hair get ruined because of the daily sweat? 
now that Antoinette is getting her work out on we this was the perfect post to share.
                                                                                                                                     
Natasha Of ASILI GLAM Has The Answers

1.First, do your low impact workout routine closer to your wash day. For instance, if your wash day is generally on a Saturday save your 10 mile running session for that morning. During the week, try more low intensive workouts such as yoga or Pilates. 


2.Second, come up with a workout routine that coincides with your natural hair regimen. This means the two days you usually co-wash your hair should line up with the two days you do most of your cardio. Since you sweat the most when you do cardio workouts, it makes perfect sense to co-wash your hair that day and do a wash and go style post work out. 


3.Thirdly, if your hair is pressed, before working out secure hair in a 
high bun and a sweat band to keep your hair line from puffing up too badly.
If your rocking a twist out, try twisting your hair into large sections and securing in a loose pony tail. This will keep the definition of the twist out post workout. 


Dope Girl. Dope Blog. Obsessed with her hair in thisphoto? Meet your new hair idol Natasha of Asili Glam HERE


Get Me Bodied

As many of you know I have set out to become more healthy and shed some excess weight that’s been weighing me down in more ways than one. I received an extraordinary amount of comments and e-mails from you all and it inspired me to document my journey. Below is how I’m currently changing my diet. I ain’t playing. This ish has to be a lifestyle change or isn’t not gonna be worth it. So leggo.
Goal:
To get healthy and back to at least this weight (pictured above) with more tone, definition and confidence. Click here for pictures of my current weight.
                                                                                                                                                                    
Home Cooking:
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I eat out way too much. When I thought about it I was appalled by how little I actually cooked. I used to love to cook. It was a nice way for me to unwind.  Now, I’m afraid I’ve become a true, always on the go, New Yorker who grabs the quickest thing on the way to the train. SMH. 

I also work at a jazz club/restaurant so not only am I surrounded by some not-so-great-options but I know how unhealthy constant dining out can be. It may taste good but it’s fried, soaked and butter and drenched in salt. No bueno. It’s hard resisting the delicious Southern Style Cooking at my job but it’s something I’ve just got to do. Servers know… at the end of the night those left over fries are hard to resist. Shout out to all those hustling/slinging plates with a damn degree. Ugh.

Anyway, cook a home cooked meal. It’s important. You’ll not only know what’s in your food but you’ll have complete control over it. And hopefully, you splurge and buy organic meats and such. It may hit your pockets hard now but it won’t be nearly as expensive as diabetes prescriptions. Catch my drift. Invest in your health. Invest in your life.

Breakfast:
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Mmmm. I started eating breakfast again too and I love it! I’ll either have some low fat cereal or oatmeal with some vanilla almond milk or some plain yogurt with blueberries and bananas. I’m finding that when I eat breakfast I really do feel more energized. And even more importantly when I eat a healthy breakfast I don’t crave those delicious sugary sweets I seem love so much throughout the day. It really is the most important meal because it gets you started right and combats hunger throughout the day. Eat some breakfast yall.

H2o:
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I have definitely been getting my drink on but not in the way you’re thinking. I’ve actually limited my alcohol in-take to 2 drinks a week tops(excluding this weekend with Shanti smh) but I’ve been doing really well. It can be difficult since I work at a club and a drink after an 10 hour shift on my feet, can be very appealing but knowing I have to get up and go to the gym in the morning helps keep me on track. Anyway, I am passing on all juices that are not fresh and vegetable, sodas, iced teas and such and am instead, aiming to drink at least a 1/2 gallon of water a day. I used to drink a gallon a day in high school but somehow got off track. So, it’s going back to the basics.

Juicing:

Juicing is the ish. I drink mostly veggie/green juice. The only fruit I put in it is a 1/2 green apple. We have an entire post dedicated to it and it’s benefits. You should read it.

Smaller Portions and Healthier Options
This one is pretty self explanatory. For the most part we eat way too much. We either skip meals and then over eat at the end of the day or we skip meals, munch on unhealthy snacks and then over eat at the end of the day. lol. There is really no reason to have a 3 course meal. Our stomachs are on average the size of our fist so why in the hell are we being so greedy?  
I’ve noticed that I eat healthier and only when I need to when I don’t focus on having 3 meals but rather, I eat smaller portions whenever I’m hungry or in need of energy. Can you believe it? Instead of getting tired (the itis) after I eat I get a boost of energy. SMH.
Wheatgrass
Wheatgrass is probably one of the best things for us on this planet because it oxidizes our blood and almost immediately gives you a boast of energy.  I won’t go into all the benefits of wheatgrass in full right now but I am working on a post dedicated to it. Look out for it soon. In the mean time, you should know I am taking 3-4 shots of this stuff a week and I swear I’ve noticed a difference in my skin, my energy, mood, menstrual cycle and body.
There are so many of you that said you were along for the ride so if you have suggestions or want to share your regimens please do below!
 Also, send in pictures and/or details of your progress here! Work-out regimen coming soon.

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